I recently had an
adventure with my father-in-law. His
driver’s license was near its expiration and he needed to get it renewed. By the way, my father-in-law is 91 years
old. He does not drive anymore partly
because he can’t escape their residence without one of us. Still the state renewed his license. I wonder why it is that we feel powerless to
say “no.” The state did not tell him
“no.” His daughters did not tell him
“no” either (as if any of them could anyway.)
Sometimes we feel powerless to say “no” to others. We may even feel that way about
ourselves. But “no” isn’t the only
answer we can give to circumstances.
There are some circumstances we should say “yes” to but maybe we don’t.
I think about Mary and her
surprise visit with one of God’s angels.
I can imagine that she was shocked first by the angel’s presence and
second by the announcement. Mary, a
young virgin, had found favor with God and she would become the bearer of God’s
son. She is told how this would happen
and even what name she would give the boy.
I can also imagine some of the objections Mary might have felt or thought,
but didn’t say. “Excuse me . . . how can
this be?” “Are you sure? I’m a virgin!” or “How, since I am a
virgin?” She could have made excuses for
why she should say “no” to God’s emissary.
But she didn’t. Maybe instead,
she reflected upon the history of her people and how God had opened the womb of
women who longed for a child. Sarai,
Rachel, Hannah, and even her cousin, Elizabeth.
All things were possible with God, even pregnancy by the Holy
Spirit. And so Mary had a different
reply “Here I am, the servant of the Lord; let it be with me according to your
word.” Actually, if I were to boil this down
to a six-word memoir for her, I think her summation would be “All I could say
was ‘yes!’”
As a community of faith,
we say “yes” to a lot of opportunities to serve. We are invested in two distinct and powerful
ministries for people who are marginalized.
There are dedicated people who diligently serve these missional ministries,
but it seems to be consistently the same people. One area of growth for us as a church is
inviting others to join us and to expand the depth of involvement across a
larger swath of the church. It is part
of every disciple’s journey, serving others.
Jesus has some powerful
words of command and warning in the gospels.
On one occasion he tells his disciples that they are the ones to feed
the hungry crowd. On another occasion he
told them that the ones welcomed into God’s kingdom will be the ones who served
Jesus. They did this when they fed,
clothed, gave drink to, visited when sick and in prison, the least of Jesus’
brothers and sisters. In other words,
our welcome into the kingdom is tied to how we serve Jesus by serving those who
are distressed and in need today. As we
listen more intently to God’s call maybe we will realize like Mary that “all we
could say was ‘yes!’”
I invite you to take time
and read each of the scriptures above followed by reflection on the questions
below. Discern how God is calling you
and how you can say “yes.” Lastly, I
pray that God bless the reading of God’s Word and the meditations of your
heart.